by Stacy L. Allred, Mary K. Duke & James E. Hughes, Jr. (2022) | Summary :
The article Can Your Client’s Family Live In the Estate Plan You Create? explores how estate plans can unintentionally create emotional, relational, and practical challenges for beneficiaries when they focus only on taxes, asset protection, and financial control.

The authors explain that families must be prepared to live within the structures created by trusts, LLCs, and other estate planning tools. Without preparation, beneficiaries may face conflict, confusion, dependency, or damaged relationships.

The article uses Rosie’s story to show how receiving wealth without guidance disrupted her identity, marriage, sibling relationship, and family governance roles. Her experience highlights the importance of preparing beneficiaries before wealth transfer happens.

The authors encourage advisors to balance financial capital with qualitative capitals, including human, intellectual, social, and spiritual capital. Estate planning should help family members grow, communicate, make decisions, and build their own sense of purpose.

In conclusion, the article calls advisors to ask deeper questions and create plans that families can actually live in, not just legally or financially, but emotionally and relationally as well.

Originally published in the September 2022 issue of Trusts & Estates.

 

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